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<hr />  To all of my readers and friends:
<p />&nbsp;I apologize for the repetition of some of my recent posts. I have been experiencing some technical glitches with the systems that share my blog posts across different platforms, especially to Facebook. My Facebook account was hacked in January and this resulted in several posting failures. As a result, I am reposting a few articles from my blog, Elderly Fraud Recovery Help.&nbsp;I appreciate your understanding and patience!
<p />&nbsp;The following is from January 30, 2012:
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<div> As I continue researching my book to get it finished, I keep finding more good information to share with my readers. The latest bit comes from the MetLife Mature Market Institute&#8217;s report from June, 2011, entitled The MetLife Study of Elder Financial Abuse: Crimes of Occasion, Desperation, and Predation Against America&#8217;s Elders. While there&#8217;s a great deal of information in the report, I&#8217;m focusing on one vulnerability I observe in many elder financial abuse victims:
<p />&nbsp;It&#8217;s called the &#8220;&#8216;Well, okay&#8217; Syndrome.&#8221;
<p />&nbsp;The report describes how certain implicit dynamics can work against an elder. Many times a grandparent or other senior has a natural, strong desire to&nbsp;help out a younger family member who&#8217;s having a hard time. Almost every parent and grandparent I&#8217;ve known has been glad to help out when they can, and I admire this generosity of spirit. Problems can arise, however, when the elder keeps giving more and more money to a family member, using phrases like, &#8220;Well, okay, I&#8217;ll give you more&nbsp;money this time, but that&#8217;s it.&#8221; Before long, the elder is being hit up for more money, and the cycle starts over again: &#8220;Well, okay, but this is the last&nbsp;time.&#8221; And on and on and&#8230;
<p />&nbsp;Over time this becomes a form of serial financial exploitation, or even abuse. Elders&nbsp;may end up giving more money than is prudent for their situation and have to do without something important to their wellbeing. Their admirable quality ends up getting them in trouble, and usually doesn&#8217;t really help the struggling person in the long term.
<p />&nbsp;I encourage caregivers and concerned adults around elders to watch out for this pattern. Help your senior understand the difference between genuine help for a&nbsp;struggling but deserving person, and enabling bad behavior and choices. Teach them about setting good boundaries on requests&nbsp;for money, and how to offer alternative forms of help and support.
<p />&nbsp;Help our seniors be able to say&nbsp;&#8221;no way&#8221; to the &#8220;Well, okay&#8221; Syndrome.
<p />&nbsp;Thanks for reading,
<p />&nbsp;Art&nbsp;
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&#160;Sometimes I wondered if it would really happen.
&#160;I&#8217;m happy to report that I have reached a big milestone in&#160;my work with elderly fraud victims and their families&#8230;
&#160;I&#160;finished the&#160;book! Yes, Scammed! Three Steps to Help Your Elder Parent and Yourself will be available this summer.
&#160;I&#160;got it&#160;done on February 10, and then [...]]]></description>
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<hr /> It&#8217;s been a long road.
<p />&nbsp;Sometimes I wondered if it would really happen.
<p />&nbsp;I&#8217;m happy to report that I have reached a big milestone in&nbsp;my work with elderly fraud victims and their families&#8230;
<p />&nbsp;I&nbsp;finished the&nbsp;book! Yes, Scammed! Three Steps to Help Your Elder Parent and Yourself will be available this summer.
<p />&nbsp;I&nbsp;got it&nbsp;done on February 10, and then went on a cruise the&nbsp;next day to rest, recover, and celebrate the book and my birthday. I am delighted with how it turned out, and I hope you will be as well. A good friend of mine who is a professional author and publisher&nbsp;gave it high praise, and my own publisher is thrilled. We both think it will help many people who are dealing with the&nbsp;aftermath of their parent&#8217;s fraud victimization. We&#8217;ve already started the editing process, and all the other work to get it ready will take until June or July.
<p />&nbsp;I&#8217;ll keep you posted on how it&#8217;s going, and thanks for your patience while I worked very hard to finish this up.
<p />&nbsp;Art 		 	 		 &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;
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&#160;Sometimes I wondered if it would really happen.
&#160;I&#8217;m happy to report that I have reached a big milestone in&#160;my work with elderly fraud victims and their families&#8230;
&#160;I&#160;finished the&#160;book! Yes, Scammed! Three Steps to Help Your Elder Parent and Yourself will be available this summer.
&#160;I&#160;got it&#160;done on February 10, and then [...]]]></description>
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<div> It&#8217;s been a long road.
<p />&nbsp;Sometimes I wondered if it would really happen.
<p />&nbsp;I&#8217;m happy to report that I have reached a big milestone in&nbsp;my work with elderly fraud victims and their families&#8230;
<p />&nbsp;I&nbsp;finished the&nbsp;book! Yes, Scammed! Three Steps to Help Your Elder Parent and Yourself will be available this summer.
<p />&nbsp;I&nbsp;got it&nbsp;done on February 10, and then went on a cruise the&nbsp;next day to rest, recover, and celebrate the book and my birthday. I am delighted with how it turned out, and I hope you will be as well. A good friend of mine who is a professional author and publisher&nbsp;gave it high praise, and my own publisher is thrilled. We both think it will help many people who are dealing with the&nbsp;aftermath of their parent&#8217;s fraud victimization. We&#8217;ve already started the editing process, and all the other work to get it ready will take until June or July.
<p />&nbsp;I&#8217;ll keep you posted on how it&#8217;s going, and thanks for your patience while I worked very hard to finish this up.
<p />&nbsp;Art 		 	 		 </div>
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 Are your elder&#160;parents doing more and more online? Statistics show&#160;they are.&#160;I recently discovered a very sneaky way scammers have evolved to trick&#160;them. This&#160;came to me (and&#160;therefore to you) through an&#160;email newsletter from&#160;an organization&#160;called&#160;Internet Scambusters&#160;.
&#160;What&#8217;s&#160;apparently happening is that scammers are using&#160;a new&#160;tactic to&#160;create phony websites designed to capture personal information and credit card numbers.&#160;Crooks have [...]]]></description>
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<div> Are your elder&nbsp;parents doing more and more online? <a href="http://blog.nielsen.com/nielsenwire/online_mobile/six-million-more-seniors-using-the-web-than-five-years-ago/" target="_blank">Statistics </a>show&nbsp;they are.&nbsp;I recently discovered a very sneaky way scammers have evolved to trick&nbsp;them. This&nbsp;came to me (and&nbsp;therefore to you) through an&nbsp;email newsletter from&nbsp;an organization&nbsp;called&nbsp;<a href="http://www.scambusters.org" target="_blank">Internet Scambusters&nbsp;</a>.
<p />&nbsp;What&#8217;s&nbsp;apparently happening is that scammers are using&nbsp;a new&nbsp;tactic to&nbsp;create phony websites designed to capture personal information and credit card numbers.&nbsp;Crooks have been using phony websites and email addresses for some time to defraud people&#8211;this is part of what&#8217;s called &#8220;spoofing.&#8221; The new tactic&nbsp;involves simply dropping a dot from a web address such as &#8220;mail.google.com&#8221; for example. Instead of the real address, the spoofed address could be &#8220;mailgoogle.com&#8221; Notice the missing dot? This could be difficult for someone with a visual impairment.
<p />&nbsp;The potential danger in this is that your&nbsp;parent could unwittingly &#8220;drop the dot&#8221; in a web address, or it could come in as a link&nbsp;on a sketchy email. If your mom or dad&nbsp;clicks the link, it could take them to a page which looks exactly like the real thing,&nbsp;but&nbsp;it ends up downloading viruses or other types of&nbsp;destructive programs (called &#8220;malware&#8221;). Then, if they enter&nbsp;credit/debit card numbers or personal information, fraud and identity theft are underway.
<p />&nbsp;According to the newsletter, some major US&nbsp;corporations have already&nbsp;been targeted by scammers in&nbsp;Russia and China. The&nbsp;account mentions big names such as Kohl&#8217;s, Dell, IBM, and HP. Please note, I am not suggesting there is&nbsp;currently a problem with any of those companies&#8217; websites.
<p />&nbsp;Remind your parent that any request for personal information through an email is a &#8220;dead giveaway&#8221; for a possible scam. I suggest you help your&nbsp;parent stay safe by having them forward to you any emails seeking information&nbsp;that come in from companies, no matter how authentic-looking they may be. You can also remind them to be sure to check the web or email&nbsp;address&nbsp;they enter for any missing punctuation.&nbsp;Be sure it matches the&nbsp;information from the company itself by logging in to the real website and verifying it. Sometimes you may be able to talk to a live person, or possibly send an email to a customer service email address you know is valid.
<p />&nbsp;More seniors are getting online&nbsp;all the time. The internet can be an amazing source of information, entertainment, and social connection. Help your parents enjoy all it has to offer and keep themselves safe from scam artists.
<p />&nbsp;You can read the full article from Scambusters here: <a href="http://www.scambusters.org/domainnamescams.html" target="_blank">http://www.scambusters.org/domainnamescams.html</a>
<p />&nbsp;Thanks for reading,
<p />&nbsp;Art&nbsp;&nbsp;
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&#160;What&#8217;s&#160;apparently happening is that scammers are using&#160;a new&#160;tactic to&#160;create phony websites designed to capture personal information and credit card numbers.&#160;Crooks [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='posterous_autopost'>  Are your elder&nbsp;parents doing more and more online? <a href="http://blog.nielsen.com/nielsenwire/online_mobile/six-million-more-seniors-using-the-web-than-five-years-ago/">Statistics </a>show&nbsp;they are.&nbsp;I recently discovered a very sneaky way scammers have evolved to trick&nbsp;them. This&nbsp;came to me (and&nbsp;therefore to you) through an&nbsp;email newsletter from&nbsp;an organization&nbsp;called&nbsp;<a href="http://www.scambusters.org">Internet Scambusters&nbsp;</a>.
<p />&nbsp;What&#8217;s&nbsp;apparently happening is that scammers are using&nbsp;a new&nbsp;tactic to&nbsp;create phony websites designed to capture personal information and credit card numbers.&nbsp;Crooks have been using phony websites and email addresses for some time to defraud people&#8211;this is part of what&#8217;s called &#8220;spoofing.&#8221; The new tactic&nbsp;involves simply dropping a dot from a web address such as &#8220;mail.google.com&#8221; for example. Instead of the real address, the spoofed address could be &#8220;mailgoogle.com&#8221; Notice the missing dot? This could be difficult for someone with a visual impairment.
<p />&nbsp;The potential danger in this is that your&nbsp;parent could unwittingly &#8220;drop the dot&#8221; in a web address, or it could come in as a link&nbsp;on a sketchy email. If your mom or dad&nbsp;clicks the link, it could take them to a page which looks exactly like the real thing,&nbsp;but&nbsp;it ends up downloading viruses or other types of&nbsp;destructive programs (called &#8220;malware&#8221;). Then, if they enter&nbsp;credit/debit card numbers or personal information, fraud and identity theft are underway.
<p />&nbsp;According to the newsletter, some major US&nbsp;corporations have already&nbsp;been targeted by scammers in&nbsp;Russia and China. The&nbsp;account mentions big names such as Kohl&#8217;s, Dell, IBM, and HP. Please note, I am not suggesting there is&nbsp;currently a problem with any of those companies&#8217; websites.
<p />&nbsp;Remind your parent that any request for personal information through an email is a &#8220;dead giveaway&#8221; for a possible scam. I suggest you help your&nbsp;parent stay safe by having them forward to you any emails seeking information&nbsp;that come in from companies, no matter how authentic-looking they may be. You can also remind them to be sure to check the web or email&nbsp;address&nbsp;they enter for any missing punctuation.&nbsp;Be sure it matches the&nbsp;information from the company itself by logging in to the real website and verifying it. Sometimes you may be able to talk to a live person, or possibly send an email to a customer service email address you know is valid.
<p />&nbsp;More seniors are getting online&nbsp;all the time. The internet can be an amazing source of information, entertainment, and social connection. Help your parents enjoy all it has to offer and keep themselves safe from scam artists.
<p />&nbsp;You can read the full article from Scambusters here: <a href="http://www.scambusters.org/domainnamescams.html">http://www.scambusters.org/domainnamescams.html</a>
<p />&nbsp;Thanks for reading,
<p />&nbsp;Art&nbsp;&nbsp;
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&#160;Sometimes I wondered if it would really happen.
&#160;I&#8217;m happy to report that I have reached a big milestone in&#160;my work with elderly fraud victims and their families&#8230;
&#160;I&#160;finished the&#160;book! Yes, Scammed! Three Steps to Help Your Elder Parent and Yourself will be available this summer.
&#160;I&#160;got it&#160;done on February 10, and [...]]]></description>
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<p />&nbsp;Sometimes I wondered if it would really happen.
<p />&nbsp;I&#8217;m happy to report that I have reached a big milestone in&nbsp;my work with elderly fraud victims and their families&#8230;
<p />&nbsp;I&nbsp;finished the&nbsp;book! Yes, Scammed! Three Steps to Help Your Elder Parent and Yourself will be available this summer.
<p />&nbsp;I&nbsp;got it&nbsp;done on February 10, and then went on a cruise the&nbsp;next day to rest, recover, and celebrate the book and my birthday. I am delighted with how it turned out, and I hope you will be as well. A good friend of mine who is a professional author and publisher&nbsp;gave it high praise, and my own publisher is thrilled. We both think it will help many people who are dealing with the&nbsp;aftermath of their parent&#8217;s fraud victimization. We&#8217;ve already started the editing process, and all the other work to get it ready will take until June or July.
<p />&nbsp;I&#8217;ll keep you posted on how it&#8217;s going, and thanks for your patience while I worked very hard to finish this up.
<p />&nbsp;Art
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='posterous_autopost'>  As I continue researching my book to get it finished, I keep finding more good information to share with my readers. The latest bit comes from the MetLife Mature Market Institute&#8217;s report from June, 2011, entitled The MetLife Study of Elder Financial Abuse: Crimes of Occasion, Desperation, and Predation Against America&#8217;s Elders. While there&#8217;s a great deal of information in the report, I&#8217;m focusing on one vulnerability I observe in many elder financial abuse victims:
<p />&nbsp;It&#8217;s called the &#8220;&#8216;Well, okay&#8217; Syndrome.&#8221;
<p />&nbsp;The report describes how certain implicit dynamics can work against an elder. Many times a grandparent or other senior has a natural, strong desire to&nbsp;help out a younger family member who&#8217;s having a hard time. Almost every parent and grandparent I&#8217;ve known has been glad to help out when they can, and I admire this generosity of spirit. Problems can arise, however, when the elder keeps giving more and more money to a family member, using phrases like, &#8220;Well, okay, I&#8217;ll give you more&nbsp;money this time, but that&#8217;s it.&#8221; Before long, the elder is being hit up for more money, and the cycle starts over again: &#8220;Well, okay, but this is the last&nbsp;time.&#8221; And on and on and&#8230;
<p />&nbsp;Over time this becomes a form of serial financial exploitation, or even abuse. Elders&nbsp;may end up giving more money than is prudent for their situation and have to do without something important to their wellbeing. Their admirable quality ends up getting them in trouble, and usually doesn&#8217;t really help the struggling person in the long term.
<p />&nbsp;I encourage caregivers and concerned adults around elders to watch out for this pattern. Help your senior understand the difference between genuine help for a&nbsp;struggling but deserving person, and enabling bad behavior and choices. Teach them about setting good boundaries on requests&nbsp;for money, and how to offer alternative forms of help and support.
<p />&nbsp;Help our seniors be able to say&nbsp;&#8221;no way&#8221; to the &#8220;Well, okay&#8221; Syndrome.
<p />&nbsp;Thanks for reading,
<p />&nbsp;Art&nbsp;
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='posterous_autopost'>  I&#8217;ve been away from blogging for awhile as I have been working very hard on finishing my book. My deadline is coming up soon, but I wanted to share with you some interesting information about qualities that make our elders more vulnerable to scams and frauds. Some of it I haven&#8217;t seen anywhere else.&nbsp;
<p />&nbsp;According to an article by Sid Kirchheimer on AARP&#8217;s website, researchers and experts describe the negative effects of well-known problems such as memory loss and loneliness in making seniors more vulnerable to frauds and scams. In terms of memory loss, the article points out how scammers can use memory loss against a victim by repeating a lie to them so often they believe it. For example, telling a person repeatedly, &#8220;You forgot to pay me!&#8221; can cause them to doubt themselves and end up paying double. Mr. Kirchheimer also writes about how an older person&#8217;s&nbsp;cognitive ability often wanes after 2pm or so, which is why crooks so often seem to call their marks in the late afternoon or evening. Sneaky and exploitative, isn&#8217;t it?
<p />&nbsp;Loneliness is another big factor in scam victimization, as I&#8217;ve written here and in my book. I thought this quote was particularly interesting:
<p />&nbsp;&#8221;It&#8217;s loneliness or feeling undervalued that boosts a senior&#8217;s risk of falling for scams by 30 percent, suggests new research by Peter A. Lichtenberg of Wayne State University&#8217;s Institute of Gerontology. Both states of mind, he says, &#8216;fall under the need of having status in society and those needs not being met. It comes down to feeling socially isolated.&#8217;&#8221;
<p />&nbsp;30 percent is a huge increase in risk for scam victimization, and it points yet again to the importance of making sure elders feel connected and valued in their social systems.
<p />&nbsp;The most intriguing part of the article for me, however, was the section in which the conventional wisdom that elders&#8217; tendency to be more trusting makes them vulnerable to victimization&nbsp;may not be as accurate as we thought. Here&#8217;s another quote:
<p />&nbsp;&#8221;&#8230;studies find that many older people are in fact better at detecting lies than younger folks. Still, older people &#8216;tend to be more patriotic and more religious,&#8217; says neuropsychologist Stacey Wood of Scripps College, traits which the bad guys can sometimes exploit. Patriotism can open the door to scammers who pretend to be from a government agency or a veterans group. Being religious, meanwhile, can make people vulnerable to cons involving fake charities or other supposed good causes.&#8221;
<p />&nbsp;I still observe, based on my&nbsp;own interactions with seniors in scam prevention trainings and other settings, that they often are more trusting of people. It may be they just aren&#8217;t as trusting as we&#8217;ve thought, and the real reasons for their vulnerability are more complex than we&#8217;ve realized. Mr. Kirchheimer goes on to write that research shows that age can impair a person&#8217;s ability to spot red flags for fraud that are more obvious to younger people. He cites a possible explanation: &#8220;Compared to other age groups, older adults tend to have a more positive outlook.&#8221; It just goes to show that an optimistic outlook isn&#8217;t always a good thing, especially when dealing with criminals.
<p />&nbsp;Here&#8217;s the link to the full article: <a href="http://www.aarp.org/money/scams-fraud/info-02-2011/scams-trap-older-adults.html">http://www.aarp.org/money/scams-fraud/info-02-2011/scams-trap-older-adults.html</a>
<p />&nbsp;Thanks for reading,
<p />&nbsp;Art&nbsp;
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		<title>Cell Phone Cameras and Identity Theft Against the Elderly</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2011 19:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[   I will admit to a new &#8220;techno crush.&#8221; I recently got my first smart phone, an Apple iphone, and I love the thing. I&#8217;m amazed at how much fun it is, and its easy, intuitive functionality. As both of my ventures grow, it&#8217;s proving extremely helpful.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='posterous_autopost'>   I will admit to a new &#8220;techno crush.&#8221; I recently got my first smart phone, an Apple iphone, and I love the thing. I&#8217;m amazed at how much fun it is, and its easy, intuitive functionality. As both of my ventures grow, it&#8217;s proving extremely helpful.
<p />&nbsp;Yesterday I was giving a talk about identity theft against elders for a group of hospice nurses. As I was talking about the importance of making sure the elder&#8217;s private information and credit cards are locked up when caregivers or home repair people are coming over, I had a sudden flash of insight.&nbsp;It occurred to me that my cool new smartphone, with its easy-to-use and remarkably clear&nbsp;camera, could potentially be used to take pictures of a credit or debit card. I took pictures of a couple of my own cards to see how clear the images would be, and they were very&nbsp;readable with no&nbsp;effort at all.
<p />&nbsp;I did some research on this, and found that people have been writing about this&nbsp;on the internet. Sometimes a warning email circulates. A hoax-debunking website I looked at said there were no reports of fraud of this type happening. However, this was all based on the idea that someone in a store could casually walk by and snap a picture of an unsuspecting victim&#8217;s card and then use the image to go on a shopping spree.
<p />&nbsp;What I&#8217;m referring to is the ease with which a dishonest caregiver or other visitor could snap a photo of a carelessly stored debit or&nbsp;credit card, front and back, while an elder is in a different room or asleep. This could possibly happen in a case with an elder who has some sort of medication-induced fuzziness, too. The image of the card would be useful for online shopping, among other things.
<p />&nbsp;What this means, then, is it&#8217;s that much more vital to keep your parent&#8217;s credit/debit cards locked up if someone is coming over. A criminal could easily take a photo in the right circumstance and the card would never go missing. A huge balance could show up on an account very quickly. Thankfully, I&#8217;m certain the credit card companies would view this as credit card fraud and not hold the person liable for more than $50, but they could clean out a person&#8217;s account if the crook got a photo of a debit card. Beyond that, there&#8217;s the &#8220;hassle factor&#8221; of having to clean up the mess.
<p />&nbsp;Thanks for reading,
<p />&nbsp;Art&nbsp;&nbsp;
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		<title>Prevention Ideas from Police Detectives</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 15:43:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[    If you&#8217;ve read any of my earlier series of blog posts entitled &#8220;Anatomy of a Scam: Bill&#8217;s Story,&#8221; you may remember we worked with a very helpful and compassionate detective in our local police department. Nicole was great&#8211;she helped guide Bill and me through the very upsetting early stages of the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='posterous_autopost'>    If you&#8217;ve read any of my earlier series of blog posts entitled &#8220;Anatomy of a Scam: Bill&#8217;s Story,&#8221; you may remember we worked with a very helpful and compassionate detective in our local police department. Nicole was great&#8211;she helped guide Bill and me through the very upsetting early stages of the scam recovery process with skill and understanding.&nbsp;She continues to work on fraud and scam cases involving the elderly,&nbsp;so I asked her for some&nbsp;ideas for preventing&nbsp;these kinds of crimes. Here&#8217;s what she shared with me:&nbsp;
<p />&nbsp;<span style="color: rgb(31, 73, 125); font-family: Calibri,sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">&#8220;My first suggestion to others would be to try and get as involved as they can in their parents&#8217; business. I know it is difficult at times as it may seem you are taking&nbsp;their independence away, but hopefully they know you mean well and are looking out for their best interest. In the case of (a recent identity theft case) it was a home health care worker who was only there one day to take care of the mother. The daughter found out and then requested credit reports and filed fraud alerts, and it turned out the suspect attempted to open numerous other accounts in her mother&#8217;s name. Since then she has told the home health care people that she needs the names and any other possible information on the workers that are coming through her parent&#8217;s house. I believe she has also started a sign up sheet at her mother&#8217;s residence where the worker must sign in and out with the date and times they were there as well as their name so she knows everyone who is coming in contact with her parents.&#8221;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><br /> 
<p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="color: rgb(31, 73, 125); font-family: Calibri,sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">&#8220;Her mother’s personal&nbsp;information was in the nightstand drawer in her bedroom next to where her mother was staying.&nbsp; Whenever possible, leave all identifying information out of view and reach of others.&nbsp; Unfortunately a lot of people get into this business just for the opportunity to commit fraud.&nbsp;Numerous people who work in this industry have criminal records, and people can get copies of their own criminal backgrounds for a fee.&nbsp; I suggest to Missouri residents that they look at a website called Casenet at <a href="https://www.courts.mo.gov/casenet/base/welcome.do" target="_blank">https://www.courts.mo.gov/casenet/base/welcome.do</a>. , which is also free and easily accessible.&nbsp; It provides both civil and criminal case information brought against people in the State of Missouri.&#8221; (Note: If you live elsewhere, take a look at <a href="http://www.criminalsearches.com">www.criminalsearches.com</a>).&nbsp; </span></p>
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<p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="color: rgb(31, 73, 125); font-family: Calibri,sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">&#8220;My other suggestion to children/family of the elderly is to contact the local police department where their parents/elderly family member lives and leave their information (name, relation, address and phone numbers, and the more people the better) for contact.&nbsp; We can log that information into the computer so that if anything would come up with their parent, whether it be fraud or a health emergency, we would have that information readily available to contact them.&#8221;&nbsp; </span></p>
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<p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="color: rgb(31, 73, 125); font-family: Calibri,sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">Another detective, from North Carolina, said in a recent news article that&nbsp;it&#8217;s very important to report suspected scam phone calls: &#8220;If it was me, I would contact my phone company immediately and see if they can start a trace on the line,” she said. “Then I would call my local police department and have them file a report.” This may help prevent others from being ripped off.</span></p>
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<p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="color: rgb(31, 73, 125); font-family: Calibri,sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">In addition, I encourage elders to share the news with their neighbors and friends. This is the third &#8220;R&#8221; I talk about in my &#8220;3 R&#8217;s of Scam Prevention&#8221;: Reaching out. I vigorously encourage elder targets to share the story of the scam call, email, or any other contact they have with unknown people who ask them for personal information or money. Spreading the word to their friends and neighbors helps them feel good about trying to help others, and reinforces their sense of competence in resisting scams and frauds.</span></p>
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<p class="ecxMsoNormal">Thanks for reading,</p>
<p>&nbsp;<br />Art
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